June 7, 2023 The Beckham County Record -5 Wife’s Ability To Trust Her GIPLEY’S Believe It or Not! Husband Takes A Hit Clunvreve OF LIVE FISH RAINED DOWN ON CARS AND bolt. I'm too old to deal with and, per the counselor, I don't Dear Abby STREETS DURING A FIERCE this nonsense, and I just want need to go anymore. STORM IN MALTA ON to live the rest of my life in Feeruary 2H, ZOI9. DEAR ABBY: My husband peace. What do you think? -— My 36-year-old daughter “THE FISH— MOSTLY SEA and [are in our early 70s. We THROWN IN KANSAS wants me to attend family BREAM—WERE BLOWN ASHORE have been married seven years. gatherings with my ex and his BY A COMBINATION OF I was celibate before we met DEAR THROWN: Please wife (his third mistress). I have GALE FORCE WINDS AND and thrilled to have a partner ignore your impulse to bolt. gone to two of them, but I re- I respected and was attracted When you started your letter, ally have no desire to do it any Wave arrenprine to to. Our sex life seemed normal you stated you had a good mar- STEAL GAS BY and exciting with lots of kisses riage to a man you respect and longer. My daughter is telling SIPHONING IT FROM A TRUCK and hugs throughout the day. are attracted to —- with the bo- me I still have “issues that I OUTSIDE A STORE IN Recently, I caught him on a nus of kisses and hugs through- need to heal” and has been lec- PORTLAND, OREGON, phone sex call and then discov- out the day. Your husband isn’t turing me about this for years. A THIEF ACCIDENTALLY ered he visits sex chat rooms. having physical contact with Must I sacrifice my feelings SET HIS PANTS ON FIRE. I'm devastated. I feel betrayed anyone on the “hotline.” for hers? -- CLEAN BREAK IN and angry that my trust has If your therapist hasn't told NEW ENGLAND been violated. After several at- you, many thousands of indi- tempts to lie, he finally admit- viduals of both sexes consider ted the truth, but said it was porn to be erotica and helpful, DEAR CLEAN BREAK: No, a “recent” thing - which was and many couples use it to en- you have suffered enough. I even more insulting! hance their sex lives. Rather see no reason why you must My therapist says men don’t than sacrifice what has been a continue to expose yourself to suddenly take up phone sex successful marriage, you and Gn 2ZOZO, A FARMER IN and pornography in their 70s. the company of two people you your husband would be better Lovi TowNnsuir, MICHIGAN, When I shared that with my off scheduling some appoint- neither like nor respect. If your BUILT A BE O-FOOT-LONG husband, he revealed it wasn’t ments with a marriage and daughter cannot accept this, WALL MADE OF COW DUNG TO. ‘as often” in the past. He family therapist, and possi- then perhaps SHE needs coun- SEPARATE HIS LAND FROM A swears he loves me and will get bly one who specializes in sex seling to understand it. NEIGHBORING PROPERTY. help, but I can’t imagine how I therapy to help you overcome can trust him again. your emotional issue on this He doesn’t seem to want to highly personal subject. Dear Abby is written by Ab- 3 Ripley EnterisinmentInc._wmsipleyecom_worwigacomicscom_picributed by Andrews Memeettor urs. 6-7 talk about it any further, other igail Van Buren, also known than taking some online class- DEAR ABBY: My former as Jeanne Phillips, and was Crossword es dealing with porn addiction. husband of 28 years cheated founded by her mother, Pau- Our relationship has always on me for the last 15 years of line Phillips. Contact Dear been cordial and friendly and our marriage. 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