October 22, 2022 Issue, Page 18 of 22

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6B October 22, 2022 How to support loved ones who have breast cancer Efforts to educate women about breast cancer have helped raise aware- then ask if that would be acceptable. This may be, “Would you like me to ness of the disease and just how treatable it is when detected early. De- run to the supermarket for you today?” spite that, a diagnosis can still be difficult for women and their families. + Offer emotional support. Someone with breast cancer may just need a person who can be there and listen. A hug, a nod of understanding or When someone close to you is affected by breast cancer, priorities sud- denly change and you may be wondering what you can do to provide the even a companion who can chat and take the person's mind off the can- cer can be immensely helpful. Keep in mind that emotions may change support needed to help this person navigate any ups and downs that on a dime, and some emotions may be directed at support systems. could be on the horizon. While it can feel hurtful, remember the real reason for any outburst is A breast cancer diagnosis does not produce a uniform response. While the disease. Patience is needed at all times. one loved one may embrace others wanting to help, another may feel + Learn what you can about breast cancer. Research the type of cancer she is a burden and exhibit an unwillingness to accept help. In the lat- your loved one has, which may make it easier to understand what to ex- ter instance, being a supportive bystander may require walking on egg- pect. If the person is amenable, you may consider accompanying her to shells. Even still, there are some universal ways to lend support when a appointments to hear firsthand about the next steps in her treatment friend or a loved one has been diagnosed with cancer. and recovery. + Offer practical support. Cancer affects the body in a number of ways. - Maintain a positive attitude. It's never easy knowing someone you love Energy levels may wane and certain symptoms may arise. Side effects is sick. They are going through their own emotional roller coaster, and from treatments also can make it difficult to continue with daily tasks. support systems can lift their spirits by maintaining positive attitudes. or mother with breast cancer. Support groups for support networks can So an offer to help with tasks associated with daily living, such as cook- Avoid wearing rose-colored glasses, but try to remain as upbeat as pos- be helpful. ing meals, gardening, washing clothes, or cleaning up around the house, sible. can be practical and much appreciated. Approach the individual and ask Individuals diagnosed with breast cancer may need a little extra love - Find a support group. Professional support groups are great resourc- questions in pointed ways. Rather than, “What can I do to help?”, which es for coping with a cancer journey. Supporting a person with cancer and support, It’s up to caregivers and friends to step up and provide may result in an answer of, “Nothing,” figure out a way to pitch in and takes its own unique toll, particularly when caring for a spouse, child what is needed. Catch It Early Call Us Today~580.821.5565 $35 COULD SAVE YOUR LIFE “Valid October 1-31, 2022; self-pay pricing, paid at time of service - no insurance filed Screening mammograms for women age 40 and older covered under most insurance plans Of) SC BREAST CANCER Great Plains Bank 2017 W. Third | 1300 S. Main | gpbankok.com Member 580-225-2265