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When I went out with him, it was great. We listened my husband is 42), we are fi- Now I'm married (I'm 37; PiLLow Fieur ed about something. The prob- to the musicians, and no one lem is, he tends to share his knew we were divorced. nancially stable and obtaining GHAnPIONSHIP financial counseling, and we IS TURNING BATTLES PREVIOUSLY news when we're getting ready My ex had serious surgery, for bed or just plain tired. I feel which I helped him through, have decided to place those funds in a different form of LIMITED TO GLUMBER PARTIES INTO A REAL COMBAT SPORT. guilty for not acquiescing, but but because of a subsequent vi- investment. The rub is that at the same time, I don’t want olent episode from him, I have Grandma objects to any chang- to fake it. Any suggestions for now severed all ties with him. a compromise, please? — AT A Td like to go back and listen es to these gifts and puts pres- sure on us. How do I thank her LOSS IN TEXAS to the musicians, but I don’t know what to say when they for her generosity and let her DEAR AT A LOSS: Explain ask me where he is. Any advice know we are handling our fi- , Suet atirer to your husband that you are would be greatly appreciated. nances now? — CUTTING THE OF SEAWATER “sorry” he’s upset at the lack ~- UNCERTAIN MUSIC LOVER APRON STRINGS CAN CONTAIN UP of enthusiasm he’s receiving To [00 BILLION when he’s excited about some- DEAR MUSIC LOVER: When DEAR CUTTING: Start by thing, but his TIMING is off. you are asked, all you need to telling your grandmother again viRUSES, If he expects you and the chil- say is, “John’ and I are no lon- how grateful you are for every- dren to be his cheering section, ger a couple, so you won't be thing she has provided these it would be helpful if he timed seeing him with me anymore. many years. 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