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6 July 7, 2021 Activities Man’s pics of young models dev- astate wife Dear Abby DEAR ABBY: I’m a 29-year- his own life soon. He may also find support by contacting the old woman married to a dream Straight Spouse Network. Its DEAR ABBY: I’m a woman in of a man I met when I was 19. website is straightspouse.org. my early 60s. I have a husband We have a child together. We I love very much and I enjoyed have had our ups and downs, dressing sexy for him at the DEAR ABBY: I gifted my boy- but it’s to be expected, I sup- end of our date nights. How- friend $5,000 so he could get pose, when you begin a rela- ever, I stumbled across some tionship before really knowing rid of his credit debt. He was pictures of half-naked young yourself. really stressed, and I thought models a friend of his continu- Recently things have be- it would be a solution. Now ally sends. Because of them come complicated. I am dis- he’s buying more stuff, like he and the fact that my husband covering things about myself enjoys commenting on them, I didn’t learn from this. I’m in no longer feel sexy. and think I may be a lesbian. I a weird situation -- why is he I’m not a 20-something identified as bisexual for most of my life, but I’m starting to spending more? (I probably model, and now I feel like an reevaluate my life now. I have have no right to know what he old fool for thinking I looked good to him. I don’t know how become repulsed by sex with has done with it.) Honestly, I to talk to him about this mat- my husband. I love our family don’t think I’ll do this again. ter. I wish that, just once, when and I think he’s an amazing What do you think? -- SADLY his friend sent him a picture, husband, but I still feel a void. MISTAKEN he would have replied “No, Please give me some advice. thank you,” and told his friend -- EVOLVING IN PENNSYLVA- NIA DEAR SADLY MISTAKEN: he already has a sexy woman Your irresponsible boyfriend is in his life. Advice? -- FEELING FOOLISH IN NEW YORK DEAR EVOLVING: It is not spending again because he now uncommon for individuals of knows you will “rescue” him by DEAR FEELING FOOLISH: both genders to come out later paying his bills. This wasn’t a You are not an “old fool,” you in life. You owe it to your hus- tiny “oops,” it was a big mis- are a disappointed wife. It’s band to level with him about take. Put away your checkbook time for an honest conversa- what’s going on, omitting, of before he ruins your credit, tion. Tell your husband you course, that you now find sex too, and end the romance or he found the pictures, read the comments he made to his with him to be “repulsive.” Un- der no circumstances should will bleed you dry! Crossword friend in response and how it you make this about him. Tell has made you feel about your him you no longer think you Dear Abby is written by Abi- own attractiveness. If you are bisexual but a lesbian, and gail Van Buren, also known Current puzzle answers speak up, he may be able to you need to explore your true as Jeanne Phillips, and was reassure you. However, if he nature. Do not expect him to founded by her mother, Pau- can’t, it may require assistance like it, but stand your ground. Offer him the option of coun- line Phillips. Contact Dear from a licensed marriage and family therapist. You have my seling at the nearest LGBTQ Abby at www.DearAbby.com or sympathy. Your problem is not center, and hope that he will P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, uncommon. be able to move forward with CA 90069. Get Fuzzy Garfield Dilbert Drabble Dailies Pearls Before Swine