November 18, 2020 Issue, Page 9 of 12

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November 18, 2020 Activities Confession to decades-old Qiney's_—-Believe It or Not/ infidelity devastates wife Dear Abby words of wisdom will be ap- of my sister. People said some preciated. -- WOUNDED IN horrible things, so I decided DEAR ABBY: Two years FLORIDA enough is enough ~ I'm done. ago, my husband of 50 years Not only have I not missed it, THE BRAIN DEAR WOUNDED: So your confessed that 46 years ago, I'm much more peaceful and CONSUMES husband chose to ease his shortly after our son was born, he had a one-night stand with guilty conscience about this less stressed. I connect with ABouvT 20% one-time infidelity 46 years people I love through email, OF OUR a total stranger he gave a ride to. She offered sex to him, and ago and lay it on you. It would texting and sometimes good JAMES DEANS 4100- POUND PINK GRANITE TOMBSTONE CALoRIC have been kinder had he “con- old-fashioned _ letter-writing. they went to a hotel for the HOS BEEN STOLEN THREE TIMES.~ INTAKE. fessed” to his spiritual adviser. That works for me. -- FREE- Submitted By Richard Gibson, Lafayette, LA. brief encounter. He said he had Focus on the fact that what totally forgotten about it until DOM REGAINED IN CALI- recently. He said he was very happened (once) four years into your marriage is less rel- FORNIA WN JaiuarRy upset when he remembered, to evant than the quality of the BOZO, the point that he felt sick. relationship you have shared He decided to tell me because during the ensuing nearly half- DEAR FREEDOM RE- GAINED: I have received an A GOAT he didn’t want any secrets be- increasing number of letters WAS BORK ISTO century. Because it has been tween us, and he asked me to two years since your husband forgive him. I forgave him, but told you and you are still in from people about problems I have been devastated ever emotional pain, consider en- in which there is a social media WITH A MUTATION since. He was a virgin when we listing the help of a licensed element. For those who have THAT CAUEED Bi married, and he has been un- marriage and family therapist. become overwhelmed, I recom- TO AN EERIE, faithful only that one time. Talking it out may help these Abby, I cannot get feelings to dissipate so you will mend limiting time spent on- line. For people who have been MUMAN-LINE RACE. over the fact that he did this no longer be haunted by the Gave victimized by trolls, another 11418. <eanareninaans. iin by Aon Ne lhad tr OF to me. Nota single day goes by images in your head. Please do without the pain and the im- not wait to do this. Your phy- solution is to simply block or ages of him being unfaithful sician is the first person to ask delete them. in a marriage that I considered for a referral. I'm sharing your suggestion to be nearly perfect until then, for anyone who might need it take hold of me and make me DEAR ABBY: I have read - and I suspect there may be ACROSS very sad. I don’t cry as much about how narcissistic, angry, quite a few. However, discon- i Halt . p a anymore, but the intensity of depressed people shame oth- 2 i" i arzan’s pals the pain hasn't subsided. ers and spread lies on social ndeting Fromaacialonedia dase 9 Repair bill item MERE REI EIMnIerS I haven't talked to anyone media. May Itake amoment to take more: effort becawse'the 4.4. Loosen WiLl 1 ld {1 |WIN BAAN Id else about this. My husband remind jou readers that they ‘"0pouts must decide not only 45 Ardor N{OIN|V MBIA Y 1) 3 i LW | 1 loves me and has been very do not HAVE to have social Whothey wish tocommunicate 16 Greek forum PNGEIME MERE supportive, but it hasn't been media? I stopped looking at it _withbut also by what means to. 17 TWO fives for ANE in enough to heal this pain. 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